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Friday, November 27, 2009

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Sunday, November 22, 2009

Weapons Of Mass Desperation:Politically turborc charged POLICE

Weapons Of Mass Desperation:Politically turborc charged POLICE

At first sight, 27-year-old VV Selvaraj looks more the assistant manager with Idea Cellular that he was until six years ago than the firebrand — and controversial — dalit leader he has quickly turned out to be in Kerala. He appears even less the man with the dubious distinction of being India’s first dalit activist the police say they are probing for possible links with terrorism, as they indeed are.
It all started on the morning of September 23, 2009, when Siva Prasad, 61, a retiree in an idyllic suburb 50 km north of the state capital Thiruvananthapuram, was brutally attacked with swords on his morning walk and died on the way to the hospital. Once a driver for US Embassy officials in New Delhi, Prasad earned enough to build a house in this suburb of Varkala, where he returned 13 years ago to join his wife, daughter and son.
By evening, police had arrested K Das, a top functionary of the Dalit Human Rights Movement (DHRM), a quasi-political outfit floated by Selvaraj in December 2007, and accused him of masterminding the killing. Over the next few days, six others, including DHRM’S legal adviser, known as ‘Advocate Asokan’, were picked up for Prasad’s murder.
Then, on September 29, Kerala Director- General of Police (DGP) Jacob Punnoose made a stunning claim. “We know the existence of the organisation [DHRM] and its activities,” he told reporters at Kochi. “We are now looking into [allegations] whether it has any terrorist links.”
The state’s topmost police officer’s sensational claim brought sharp focus on Selvaraj’s fledgling outfit. The police are yet to offer any evidence to back the DGP’s claim. (The DGP’s office said he was travelling overseas and unavailable for comment.) Prasad’s widow, Saraswati S, told TEHELKA that her husband had no political interests, and she hadn’t heard of the DHRM until the police told her that the group had killed her husband. Varkala police chief, P Anil Kumar, refused to divulge their leads on DHRM’S involvement in the murder. “They killed Prasad to get public attention and prove their strength in their ranks,” Kumar told TEHELKA.
In Varkala, a clutch of villages with roughly 40,000 people, the divide among dalits over the DHRM has got sharper since the murder. Shiv Sena activist N Babu — yes, Bal Thackeray’s party has struck roots here — claims that DHRM men regularly attack dalits, including him, who refused to join them. “They are criminals,” Babu says. Several women in his municipal ward, with about 300 dalit families, claim DHRM men often roughed them up.
But then, many others in the same ward swear by the DHRM. “My husband would drink all day and was a total waster,” 29-year-old Kochumol, a mother of three, says. “He turned a teetotaler after attending DHRM study circles.” Soon, she followed him to these Sunday gatherings where, over five hours, Ambedkar’s life would be recalled and advice given on daily affairs. Cultural shows at the end were a big hit. Despite their meagre earnings as wage labourers — they call themselves ‘coolies’ — everyone would gladly pay Rs 30 for the events.
But today, Kochumol’s husband, also named Babu, has gone underground, fearing arrest. Selvaraj says 35 DHRM men are in police custody or jails, picked up over the last three weeks. Hundreds have possibly run away. In village Thachode, Podiyan, 52, and his wife, Shantha, are clueless on the whereabouts of their son, Shivalal. All three are DHRMmembers. The say that on September 22, a day before Prasad’s murder, two plainclothes policemen dragged Shivalal away. “My son has never caused anyone harm,” says Shantha. “I beg the police to free him.” (Varkala police chief Anil Kumar denied that Shivalal was in their custody.)
For now, DHRM has stopped all activities. Having taken anticipatory bail, Selvaraj is lying low. He called this reporter to a village in Ernakulam district, 260 km north of Thiruvananthapuram along the coast, to a house not his own. After the interview (see box), he quickly left the area. Selvaraj’s fear of the police may not be entirely misplaced. When I visited dalits in Podiyan’s village on October 12, about a dozen policemen landed up suddenly and began questioning me. “Your T-shirt had us worried,” their boss said.
HIS REFERENCE is to the black T-shirts with Ambedkar’s face, which Selvaraj made mandatory for DHRM members. Selvaraj also mandated they wear jeans, a practice few follow since the arrests began.
Selvaraj may have a point in saying that neither the political parties nor the government has taken kindly to the DHRM. In a state where centuries old anti-dalit violence is legendary, DHRM has spread its influence quickly by articulating the dalits’ desire for dignity. DHRM also issued I-cards to its volunteers. Selvaraj says its total membership topped 10,000. Alarmingly for the political parties, it has political ambitions. A DHRM activist fought — and lost — this year’s Lok Sabha elections as an Independent from the Attingal constituency, winning about 5,000 votes.
Perhaps the BJP, striving to grow influence among Kerala dalits, feels the greatest threat from the DHRM. “I was once a BJP member,” says Selvaraj. “But dalits need to be on their own because every political party treats them as pawns.” For now, though, Selvaraj’s social reform and political ambitions are subordinated to the needs to extricate his and his outfit’s name from charges of terrorism.
‘CBI Should Probe Whether We Have Terrorist Links’
A short interview with V V Selvaraj of DHRM
Is DHRM linked with terrorism?
We demand an inquiry by the CBI to investigate this false allegation. Five lakh dalits have been influenced by our ideology, which is non-violent. There was not a single criminal case against us until Siva Prasad’s murder. Why isn’t the Kerala Police showing any proof?
What is the ideology of DHRM?
We propagate the ideals of Babasaheb [BR] Ambedkar and the Buddhist values that he preached. All dalits should follow Ambedkar’s life.
Have you converted to Buddhism?
We don’t have to convert to Buddhism to follow its principles.
Do you give arms training or do your members bear arms?
Never.
Why should the Kerala Police be hostile towards you?
Our influence among dalits has alarmed all the political parties, including the CPI(M), the Congress, the BJP and the Shiv Sena. They have all ganged up against us because dalits don’t go to their rallies anymore. DHRM is now the mainstream.
The police claim to have proof of DHRM involvement in Siva Prasad’s murder.
They have no evidence. They arrested K Das because he was a popular leader.
What are the activities of DHRM?
We teach people how to read and write and fill applications to use government schemes for livelihood. We hold study classes every




India woke up to the news that the Delhi Police had captured a top Naxal ideologue, 58-year-old Kobad Ghandy – a South Bombay Parsi who had grown up in a giant sea-facing house in Worli, had gone to Doon School, and had studied for a CA in London before returning to India to work with the most destitute of Indian citizens in Maharashtra, before going underground in the 1970s. His wife Anuradha, a sociologist, went underground with him and died of cerebral malaria last year. (Malaria, particularly the lethal falciparium malaria, is a common affliction in the neglected heartland of central India.) Home Minister P Chidambaram called Ghandy the State’s “most important Naxal catch.”
On the night of September 22, Times Now had a prime time debate on the significance of Ghandy’s arrest. The aggressive rhetoric of anchor Arnab Goswami epitomised typical high urban attitudes to Naxal issues. If you happened to watch him anchor the show, several terrifying things would have become evident. Over this past year, the Home Ministry has been planning a major armed offensive against the Naxals, particularly in Chhattisgarh. According to reports, the plan involves stationing around 75,000 troops in the heartland of India — including special CRPF commandos, the ITBP and the BSF. Scattered newspaper accounts have spoken of forces being withdrawn from Jammu and Kashmir and the Northeast; there is also talk of bringing in the feared Rashtriya Rifles — a battalion created specially for counter-insurgency work — and the purchase of bomb trucks, bomb blankets, bomb baskets, and sophisticated new weaponry. Minister Chidambaram has also said that if necessity dictates, he will bring in the special forces of the army.
The decision to launch such a massive armed operation on home ground — due to start this November — should have triggered animated political, civil society and media debate. But Operation Green Hunt — as the offensive is being termed — has been gathering force in almost complete silence. Prime Minister Manmohan Singh and Home Minister Chidambaram have variously called Naxals — or “Maoists” — “the gravest threat to India’s internal security.” Perhaps a military offensive against them is the answer, but is it the only answer? Is it the best answer? Will it provide a solution? Who will be impacted by this offensive? What will be its repercussions? Who are we really declaring war on? What are we declaring war on? Are we going into this with eyes wide open? Is there anything we should have learned from the seemingly irreparable psychological mess in Kashmir and the Northeast? These are the questions a democratic society should be asking. One can perhaps understand the well-heeled turning their back on such bleak issues. But with such a significant operation looming on the horizon, what can excuse the complete absence of debate from national political parties?
But silence, perhaps, is only the lesser worry. A few days ago, the government announced an ad blitzkrieg as part of its psychological offensive. “Naxals are nothing but coldblooded murderers” the ad screamed across all major news dailies. The visual showed a series of men, women and children brutally killed by Naxals.
On the night of September 22, discussing Kobad Ghandy, Arnab Goswami mouthed the same line. “Terrorist or ideologue?” he intoned, with the moral certitude of a man who has never got off his urban chair to trudge the interiors of the country. “Six thousand innocent Indians have been killed on Mr Ghandy’s ‘watch,’” he said (as if Kobad Ghandy was some Idi Amin figure presiding over a banana republic), “and yet human rights organisations and NGOs are asking for his release.” (Mr Goswami always reserves special scorn for human rights activists, as if they are a uniform sub-species of anti-national humankind, rather than men and women with differing and individual views.) “What about the 12-year-old girl the Naxals killed in Jharkhand?” he thundered. “What about the 15 CPM cadres they killed in Bengal last night?” Every time one of his panelists tried to introduce the larger political context behind Naxalism or a more complex argument, Mr Goswami swatted them down: “The question we are asking is very simple,” he said, “is he a terrorist or an ideologue? Is he responsible for violence or not? Can he be blamed for 6,000 dead or not?”
Watching the show was like straying into a child’s playroom, watching the grave judgments of infants playing at Good and Evil. As an individual point of view it would have counted for nothing, but as the voice of Times Now, currently deemed the most popular English channel, Mr Goswami’s unthinking edit line seems symptomatic of a wider, urban, English-speaking constituency. Coupled with the government ads, it presents the disturbing prospect of a public discourse that is marked by reductive official propaganda on the one side and infantile ignorance and simple-mindedness on the other. We can afford neither.
AT THE heart of the Naxal riddle, there are three primary questions: Who is a Naxal? What is one’s position on violence as a tool of struggle? And why is Naxalism on the rise across the country? To understand the first, try a useful metaphor. Imagine fish in water. Naxal leaders are the fish, finite, identifiable (even punishable); the water is the vast, infinite constituency they speak for. And swim in.
As Kobad Ghandy proves, a Naxal ideologue, commander or politburo leader can come from any milieu. The disempowered dalits of Andhra Pradesh, the destitute tribals of Chhattisgarh, the middle-class intellectuals of Bengal or the privileged rich of Bombay. These “informed revolutionaries” function at two levels. At a political level, they do not believe in parliamentary democracy (where they see power still concentrated in the hands of the feudal upper class) and their long-term objective is to seize State power for the people through armed struggle. In this, they threaten the sovereignity of the Indian State and many humanist thinkers, including men like K Balagopal of the Human Rights Forum, who was part of brokering peace talks between the government and Naxals in Andhra Pradesh in 2004, believe the State is within its rights to confront them. “The Maoists themselves would not tolerate such a challenge if they came to power,” says he. Balagopal is also critical of Naxal leaders creating “liberated zones” where the Indian State cannot function. “If they claim to be the voice of the people, can they pursue a political agenda that injures people — either by their actions or the repercussions they invite? Does the current tribal generation of Chhattisgarh want to sacrifice itself for a utopian future that may never come?”
It is true that in this prolonged ideological war, many Naxal attacks like the horrific one on the Ranibodli police station two years ago and the more recent one in Rajnandgaon embrace brutal tactics and almost fetishise violence. Even if these attacks are against an oppressive and corrupt police, it is a nobrainer to condemn them and say one is opposed to this violence. Or that their perpetrators should be punished.
But like dozens of other intellectuals, Balagopal points out that it is suicidal to focus only on this ideological war or resort to extrajudicial means alone to quell it. Can Naxalism really be wiped out by brute counter force? If that were so, Siddhartha Shankar Ray’s crackdown in Bengal in the 70s should have nailed it for all time. But the fact is, while stories of their own coercions are true, Naxal leaders enjoy wide support because they also espouse social-economic causes and empower people that the Indian State has ignored — criminally — for 60 years. Most Naxal cadres, therefore, are not “informed revolutionaries” fighting a conceptual war: they are beleagured tribals and dalits fighting local battles for basic survival and rights. Bela Bhatia, an activist, says she met a mazdoor in Bihar who was part of the cadre. “You can call me a Naxal or whatever you want,” he said. “I have picked up the gun to get my three kilos of annaj.”
The point is, should the Indian State be declaring armed war on its most despairing people? Is there no other way to empower them and wean them away from the gun and the seduction of the ‘informed revolutionary’? When Arnab Goswami evoked the 15 dead CPM members in Bengal last week, he forgot to mention that, according to newspaper reports (since no TV channel bothered to send teams there to find out) a 10,000-strong crowd of tribals had descended on the CPM office which was stockpiling arms in Inayatpur, near Lalgarh. When his panelists tried to draw his attention to this, he scathingly dubbed all 10,000 tribals as Maoists. Should “Operation Green Hunt” then stamp all 10,000 out? And if 10,000 Maoists had attacked an office, is it possible that only 15 people would have died? What is the real truth about the attack on the CPM office last week? And why was the superintendent of police, visiting a day later, unable to find any bodies? And why were the central paramilitary forces stationed there unable to prevent any of it?
Lalgarh, in fact, is a textbook case for the Naxal riddle. Over the last six months, mainstream Indian media has been agog about the “Naxal menace” in Lalgarh. But almost no one thought to ask, was the flare up in Lalgarh in May sui generis? Does an entire society become Maoist overnight? Very few bothered to report that the trouble in Lalgarh began after the Maoists attempted an assassination of Chief Minister Buddhadeb Bhattacharya earlier this year. In retaliation, the Bengal police rounded up and brutalised scores of innocent tribal boys in neighbouring Lalgarh, who had nothing to do with the attack. After several months of this sort of general, untargeted police oppression, angry and desperate, the tribal community spontaneously organised themselves as a resistance force, fighting the might of the Indian State with nothing more than traditional tools – pick-axes, bows and arrows. A few weeks later, it appears, Kishenji, a Maoist leader from Andhra Pradesh arrived to raise the ante, teaching tactics of struggle, meshing solidarity with guns and advice. The State responded with increased force and brought in paramilitary forces — a dry run for Operation Green Hunt. After several days of heavy fire, ironically using Maoist jargon, the State declared Lalgarh had been “liberated”. But, the truth is, it has been on burn ever since. The attack on the CPM office is only the most recent expression of simmering anger in the area.
As Himanshu Kumar, a Gandhian and the only human rights activist on ground zero in faraway Dantewada where Operation Green Hunt is to be launched, says, “We can all be agreed on the premise that Naxalism is a problem, but why are these poor people attracted to a politics that will end in death? Have we created such a heinous system that death is more attractive than the deprivations and humiliations this system doles out? If that is so, why should I defend this system? All that these people want is food, health care, school, clothes and their legitimate right over their land. Yet, instead of weaning them away by strengthening the democratic process, if we are going to run our democracy only on the strength of weapons, I fear we are entering a dangerous and irrepairable state. We are headed for civil war.” Men like Himanshu should know. For 17 years, he has functioned like an ICU on the edges of a wounded society, providing education and health care, painstakingly drawing tribals into the electoral and constitutional process. The government, loath to undertake the trouble, has been happy to outsource its functions to him. Yet now, it is deaf to his wisdoms. Worse, it hasn’t even consulted him.
WHICH BRINGS us to the element of water in the Naxal metaphor. People who say human rights activists and the questions they raise are antinational, would be surprised to know what men like Prime Minister Manmohan Singh and Finance Minister Pranab Mukherjee themselves have had to say earlier about the Naxal riddle. Not to mention a galaxy of judges and constitutionalists.
In 2006, the Planning Commission asked an expert committee for a report on development challenges in “extremist affected areas.” The committee comprised senior officers like former UP police chief Prakash Singh; former intelligence head, Ajit Doval; senior bureaucrats like B. Bandopadhyay, EAS Sarma, SR Sankaran and BD Sharma; and activists like Bela Bhatia and K Balagopal. The report submitted in October 2008 had some visionary analysis and recommendations.
“The main support for the Naxalite movement,” it said, “comes from dalits and adivasi tribals”: the element of water: the infinite constituency in which Naxal leaders swim. Dalits and adivasis comprise a staggering one fourth of India’s population, yet are disproportionately destitute and low on the Human Development Index scale. Worse, they suffer the most humiliation and indignity: the proverbial insult on injury. The report is an exhaustive anthology of the causes for rural discontent and violence — recording meticulous data and case studies — but at the heart of its argument, it places the “structural violence implicit in our social and economic system” as the key explanation for Naxalite violence. Slamming the neoliberal directional shift in government policies, it urges a “development centric” rather than “security centric” approach to the Naxal problem.
Curiously, three years earlier in 2005, human rights lawyer Kannabiran had written a letter to Dr Manmohan Singh reminding him of his own report as a Planning Commission Member in 1982 and one written by Pranab Mukherjee in 2002 that had come to the same conclusion. As Bela Bhatia says, “With all this insight and understanding already with them, it is completely mystifying why they should go against their own intuition and recommendation and take a security-centric route. Actually,” she adds, “it is not mystifying. It only makes the character of the Indian State more clear.”
WHO IS A NAXAL? IMAGINE FISH IN WATER. NAXAL LEADERS ARE THE FISH, FINITE, IDENTIFIABLE. WATER IS THEIR INFINITE CONSTITUENCY
This ‘character’ gets even more depressing when you know that barely a week ago, on 15 September, Arjun Sengupta, former economic adviser to Prime Minister Indira Gandhi also wrote that “Naxalism is a cry that must be heard”. Responding to Dr Manmohan Singh’s admission that despite the State’s best efforts to contain the “Naxal menace”, violence was still on the rise, Sengupta wrote powerfully, “It is important to understand why this is so and in what sense Naxalite violence is different from other violent outbursts. Although it has always expressed itself as a breach of law and order with violence, murder, extortion and acts of heinous crimes, it may not be prudent to think of every protest movement of the disaffected people as a simple issue of law and order violation, and calling for its brutal suppression. This form of extremism, indeed, goes beyond law and order, fanning some deep-seated grievance. We must try to resolve those problems first, as otherwise the violence will remain insurmountable.”
(Way back in 1996, Justice MN Rao of the Andhra Pradesh High Court had also remarked in a judgment, “While left wing extremism is viewed as a problem by the administration, it is increasingly being perceived as a solution to their problems by the alienated masses.” Why is this so? That’s a question every self-styled jingoistic nationalist must ask themselves.)
As Sengupta reminds the prime minister, he is right to fear that Naxal violence will raise its head again and again, because at its heart is the deeper structural violence that our democratic Republic refuses to address: a violence that forces 77 percent of Indians to live on less than Rs 20 a day while 5 percent enjoy lives that border on obscene excess.
Structural violence: that’s an imaginative vacuum. For most urban Indians, the lives of tribals and dalits has no meaning, no face, no flesh. Our books no longer write of it, our films no longer evoke it, our journalists no longer cover it. It’s not just the poverty; it’s bumping into a face of the Indian State you have never seen before: brutal, illegal, rapine, pimped out to serve the interests of a few. Unless one travels into the silent smoky hole in the heart of this country — the remote jungles of Chhattisgarh, Orissa, Jharkhand, Andhra Pradesh; the desolate corners of Uttar Pradesh and Bihar and Rajasthan, one cannot feel the dread of this question: How will Operation Green Hunt solve this? You might stealth-march a mythic army of COBRA commandoes into this imaginative vacuum, but how will that dissolve the “two categories of human beings” our nation has created? Operation Green Hunt may kill several hundred ‘informed revolutionaries’ and several thousand of the despairing poor who have taken up arms, but how will it address the birth of new anger — anger born out of bombing an old wound?
THE DISCOURSE ON NAXALS IS MARKED BY PROPAGANDA ON ONE SIDE AND INFANTILE IGNORANCE AND SIMPLEMINDEDNESS ON THE OTHER
As anthropologist and historian Ram Guha says, “It’s like a house with three rooms. One room was already on fire. Instead of dousing that, you willfully set fire to another room, then bulldoze the whole structure down.”
ONE OF the key architects of Operation Green Hunt, Home secretary Gopal Pillai sits in a giant office in powerful North Block. At first meeting, he doesn’t seem the average cynic you expect Indian bureaucrats to be. An amiable, thoughtful man, he says he’s seen long years of service in the Northeast and knows what a security-centric approach can do to a people, how it can trigger a world of smoke and mirrors where nothing is what it seems and everyone is chasing someone’s shadow. He seems open and ready to listen. More, he is full of surprisingly honest admissions: Manipur is a society in collective depression, he says. Yes, raising the Salwa Judum in Chhattisgarh (which human rights activists have been crying hoarse about) was wrong; yes, the Naxals have often taken up causes and done work that the government should have. But, he adds, their violent disruptions are a real deterrence for governance. You have no argument with that.
According to him, then, Operation Green Hunt is being planned as a kind of “area domination”. “We want to take back control of the land; but we will only fire if we are fired against,” says he. “Lalgarh is the model; we want no collateral damage. Our real success will be in restoring civil administration in this area. PDS, mobile medical vans, stronger police chowkis, schools – that’s our goal.” You feel eager to believe him.
MANMOHAN SINGH AND PRANAB MUKHERJEE HAVE BOTH HEADED REPORTS URGING DEVELOPMENT CENTRIC APPROACHES TO NAXALISM
Part of the problem of administering the tribal villages in the jungles of Chhattisgarh is that they are lonely and farflung; also few in the district or political administration know the tribal languages. Operation Green Hunt has been long in the planning. Battalions of CRPF men and para-military forces across the country are being given crash courses for the impending operation. The Centre has sanctioned 20 new schools in jungle warfare; invited crores worth of bids for military equipment. Is there a similar hot-foot programme for training, sensitising and incentivising the civil administration? you ask. Has he invited civil society activists in the region for their inputs? Mr Pillai has a sudden shocked moment of self-recognition. No, he admits, and scribbles “training” and “dialogue” on a yellow notepad.
There is a month to go before Operation Green Hunt is launched. A familiar despair sprouts: the gap between stated intention and action. And miles of paper and good advice gathering dust in the Planning Commission.
TODAY, THE biggest riddle for anybody concerned about a just and equal world is the dilemma of violence as a tool of political struggle. When the government shows such poor intention, when it is completely deaf to peaceful people’s movements like the Bhopal gas victims’, or the tribal resistance to bauxite mining in Niyamgirhi, or the Narmada Andolan, is one justified in asking the poor to defang themselves, unless one is willing to step out of one’s comfort zone and share their lives of helpless status quo?
Should one distinguish between Naxal violence and spontaneous rural violence? Yet, in a democratic society, how can violence of any kind be condoned? Where does that leave democratic practice?
Despite these internal tussles, contrary to what Arnab Goswami asserts, almost the entire human rights community is agreed that not only is Naxal violence to be condemned, but subdued. Increased and international access to weaponry has led to escalating violence. As Prakash Singh, a widely respected retired police chief, says, “The Naxals used to move in dalams [cells] of 20. That’s gone up to a 100. They have sophisticated weapons and their attacks have become more brutal. We have to show that such armed insurrection will not be tolerated.”
NAXALS ARE OFTEN GUILTY OF BRUTAL VIOLENCE. THEIR STRUGGLE TO SEIZE STATE POWER THREATENS INDIA’S SOVEREIGNTY
The disagreements arise over strategy and efficacy. A top security expert who wishes not to be named but is generally considered a hawk, for instance, has serious doubts over Operation Green Hunt. Ironically, he voices the anxiety of a wide range of human rights activists. “To attempt this kind of an action by police forces against your own land and people is a dangerous trap,” says he. “We usually reserve such operations for hostile territory. The police is supposed to go after particular individuals – say, Ram Lal, a criminal. But in an operation of this kind, you don’t even know who Ram Lal is, it is very difficult to know who he is or get accurate intelligence on his movements. You might end up killing Ram Lal’s relatives or his whole village. And if you don’t hold inquests, you’ll never know who you killed.”
Kashmir and the Northeast are bleeding, painful reminders: once paramilitary forces or the army moves in, you can never really withdraw. No bureaucrat or military strategist or powerful minister can control the vicious logic of paranoia, fake killings, genuine mistakes and revenge that sets in. When friend and family can be an informer, everyone is an enemy.
Already, this helpless cycle has started to turn in Chhattisgarh. Last week, in the first of its assaults, a company of 100 COBRA commandos set off to destroy an alleged Naxal arms factory in Chintagufa area. They were caught in Naxal fire. Seven COBRAs were killed. In turn, they claimed to have killed nine Naxals (whose bodies they say they have) and many more they claim the Naxals dragged away. The government has tried to pass this off as a big triumph. But the deadly smoke and mirrors game has already begun. Villagers claim the COBRAs made no kills and had dragged innocents out of villages to tot some up, among them an old man and woman. Chhattisgarh DGP Vishwaranjan does not help matters by refusing to answer questions: “I don’t have any details,” he says. An odd answer for a DGP. Plus, there’s the wound of six COBRAs dead in the first sortee.
As Operation Green Hunt kicks into top gear, all these problems will magnify. The hallucinations of the impregnable forest. Extremists who disappear, leaving villagers to bear the brunt of the commandos’ ire. Paranoia within and without, revenge and, as in the Salwa Judum, innocent tribals caught between the fury of the Naxals and the fury of the State.
TODAY, THE BIGGEST RIDDLE FOR ANYONE CONCERNED ABOUT A JUST WORLD IS THE DILEMMA OF VIOLENCE AS A TOOL OF POLITICAL STRUGGLE
Pressure will create equal and opposite counter pressure. Prime Minister Manmohan Singh can’t seem to grasp this simple physical equation. The impact of the Salwa Judum was to drive more tribals into the arms of Naxals. Operation Green Hunt promises to set the place on fire. When Binayak Sen spoke against the Salwa Judum, he was jailed. Now, when Himanshu Kumar is warning about impending civil war, no one is listening.
“Not commandos. Send in health workers and schoolteachers protected by the CRPF,” pleads he. “Show the tribals hope and they will choose life over death.” But the weight of his voice does not sway even a mote of dust in the corridors of the Home Ministry.
THERE IS one final silent piece in the escalating Naxal violence that has gripped the country: neo-liberal land grab and tribal rights. It is no coincidence that a majority of the Naxal leadership today is from Andhra Pradesh. According to journalist N Venugopal, the roots of this go back to the Telengana Movement of 1946-51, which was abruptly withdrawn by the Communist Party. In the Andhra Second Five-Year Plan (1956), 60 lakh acres of surplus land was identified. Yet by the time the Land Ceiling Act was passed in 1973, and enough concessions had been made to rich landowners, the State said only 17 lakh acres of surplus land was available, and it distributed only four. Land, livelihood and liberation was the clarion call then. Still driven by that unfulfilled aspiration, most leaders today are from the families of the ‘46 – ’51 movement.
‘THIS OPERATION IS A DANGEROUS TRAP,’ SAYS A SECURITY HAWK. ‘YOU ARE LOOKING FOR RAM LAL, YOU’LL END UP KILLING HIS RELATIVES’
EAS Sarma, former Commissioner of Tribal Welfare and former secretary, Expenditure and Economic Affairs, unlocks the real heart of the matter. “I am totally against violence of any kind and a firm believer in democratic process,” says he. “But Left extremism is a secondary issue. How many tribals even know there is a government? Their only experience of the State is the police, contractors, and real estate goons. Besides, the Fifth Schedule of the Constitution grants tribals complete rights over their traditional land and forests and prohibits private companies from mining on their land. This constitutional schedule was upheld by the Samatha judgement of the Supreme Court (1997). If successive governments lived by the spirit of the Constitution and this judgment, tribal discontent would automatically recede.”
Mr Sarma is probably right. Human rights activists have long argued that the real intention of the Salwa Judum in Chhattisgarh was to capture tribal land — brimming-rich with minerals — and hand it over to private companies. The fact that 600 tribal villages have been evacuated in the last few years gives credence to this theory. If tribals no longer live on that land, the inconvenient Fifth Schedule of the Constitution will not apply.
Given that the Supreme Court directed that the Salwa Judum was to be dismantled, perhaps, Operation Green Hunt is the second lap. In any case, whether for ill-intention, poor execution, or unplanned collateral damage, there is much to fear in the impending operation.
In the meantime, we would all do well to read the Fifth Schedule of the Constitution.

Saturday, November 7, 2009

A VULTURE NAMED MAHATHIR WITH LINGAM displayed contempt for the rule of law.His frontal assault on the judiciary in 1988 an embarrassment for nation


SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 7, 2009

A VULTURE NAMED MAHATHIR WITH LINGAM displayed contempt for the rule of law.His frontal assault on the judiciary in 1988 an embarrassment for nation



somewhere in IN MALAYSIA: And the dying old pig said to its young breeder, "You have been kind that I am not slaughtered, like all others of my kin, though I know it was because I was carrying a virusB.N1corrupt practices,. I can see that like me you are infected, but you shall be saved, but what you may innocently pass on to others may have variable consequences."


Snort! And the pig fell silent. A VULTURE NAMED MAHATHIR WITH BEST FRIEND LINGAM they say, nibbled on the carcass for a while, and flu away. It took sometime for the young man to come to terms with the event, he fell ill, but recovered. Prophetically, many other people in the town became sickcorrupt practices, some died.


Absurd.

Horrible.

Ø If you have nothing to hide, why hide and create suspicion.

Ø You hide because you fear that disclosure would do more harm than hiding.

Ø The Evidence Act, 1972 says so.

Ø If you are asked to produced something in your possession and you don't produce it on demand, the presumption is that if produced it would go against your interest.


It appears that the Opposition can win in court, but only in Round One!This is a tragic situation because it gives the impression that judgments are farcical and on the whole totally unacceptable. When people lose their faith in the judiciary, then the courts no longer stand a as a bastion for justice.In Anwar’s case, the High Court in respecting natural justice and recognising the amendment to Section 51A, ordered the prosecution “to allow Anwar’s lawyers to inspect CCTV recordings of the alleged crime scene, along with witness statement of the alleged victim, Mohd Saiful Bukhari Azlan and that of other witnesses as well as doctors’ notes.”


The High Court also ordered the “medical reports on Mohd Saiful from two hospitals – Hospital Kuala Lumpur and Pusrawi Hospital – and other evidence favourable to the defence to be handed over to Anwar.”


This is a very fair judgment considering the fact that this information sought would eventually be made available to the defence during the trial.


If that is the case, and when the amendment to Section 51A allows this, what is the justification in disallowing this vital information to the defence at this stage?


When a person is charged and his freedom is at stake, he deserves to be given every opportunity to prove his innocence.


However, the Court of Appeal had overlooked this very important principle, giving the impression that the court is not concerned with justice and hardly looks at the substantive issues which deserve their critical attention.


Ø I have addressed a few mails to your counterpart Mr. Dhananjay Mahapatra under the heading "HIS MASTERS VOICE". I find that you are echoing the sentiments of Judiciary, as they know that era of their secrecy is over and soon they would be under Public Scrutiny.

Ø When Judge after Judge is found indulging in corrupt practices, amassing wealth, how could we go with your line of reasoning?

Ø There is also blackmailing going on. This particular Judge from Punjab & Haryana High Court who is allegedly being given a clean chit, had threatened that she alone is not involved and if persecuted she would expose all names. Is it not blackmailing?

Ø In my humble opinion, JUDICIARY IS THE CESSPOOL OF CORRUPTION IN THE COUNTRY. IT IS THE FOUNTAINHEAD.

Ø Least educated or qualified people occupy the highest position in judiciary. I am sorry to say that many of Judges do not have basic knowledge of English to read, understand and interpret law.

Ø What we need is a common code of conduct for all public servants, be it bureaucracy, members of legislatures, elected representative, constitutional appointees, and Judges. They must declare their assets every year, criminal record, if any, so on and so forth.

Ø And lastly pardon my saying this, what about Journalists, Newspapers & Electronic Media. You are wise enough to appreciate what I mean. We cannot wait for another sixty years for freedom; it should come to us now, and we would get it.

Ø I have not said anything worse that what you have said for Prashant Bhushan. My views must be published without moderation.


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A VULTURE NAMED MAHATHIR WITH LINGAM displayed contempt for the rule of law.His frontal assault on the judiciary in 1988 an embarrassment for nation




somewhere in IN MALAYSIA: And the dying old pig said to its young breeder, "You have been kind that I am not slaughtered, like all others of my kin, though I know it was because I was carrying a virusB.N1corrupt practices,. I can see that like me you are infected, but you shall be saved, but what you may innocently pass on to others may have variable consequences."


Snort! And the pig fell silent. A VULTURE NAMED MAHATHIR WITH BEST FRIEND LINGAM they say, nibbled on the carcass for a while, and flu away. It took sometime for the young man to come to terms with the event, he fell ill, but recovered. Prophetically, many other people in the town became sickcorrupt practices, some died.


Absurd.

Horrible.

Ø If you have nothing to hide, why hide and create suspicion.

Ø You hide because you fear that disclosure would do more harm than hiding.

Ø The Evidence Act, 1972 says so.

Ø If you are asked to produced something in your possession and you don't produce it on demand, the presumption is that if produced it would go against your interest.


It appears that the Opposition can win in court, but only in Round One!This is a tragic situation because it gives the impression that judgments are farcical and on the whole totally unacceptable. When people lose their faith in the judiciary, then the courts no longer stand a as a bastion for justice.In Anwar’s case, the High Court in respecting natural justice and recognising the amendment to Section 51A, ordered the prosecution “to allow Anwar’s lawyers to inspect CCTV recordings of the alleged crime scene, along with witness statement of the alleged victim, Mohd Saiful Bukhari Azlan and that of other witnesses as well as doctors’ notes.”


The High Court also ordered the “medical reports on Mohd Saiful from two hospitals – Hospital Kuala Lumpur and Pusrawi Hospital – and other evidence favourable to the defence to be handed over to Anwar.”


This is a very fair judgment considering the fact that this information sought would eventually be made available to the defence during the trial.


If that is the case, and when the amendment to Section 51A allows this, what is the justification in disallowing this vital information to the defence at this stage?


When a person is charged and his freedom is at stake, he deserves to be given every opportunity to prove his innocence.


However, the Court of Appeal had overlooked this very important principle, giving the impression that the court is not concerned with justice and hardly looks at the substantive issues which deserve their critical attention.


Ø I have addressed a few mails to your counterpart Mr. Dhananjay Mahapatra under the heading "HIS MASTERS VOICE". I find that you are echoing the sentiments of Judiciary, as they know that era of their secrecy is over and soon they would be under Public Scrutiny.

Ø When Judge after Judge is found indulging in corrupt practices, amassing wealth, how could we go with your line of reasoning?

Ø There is also blackmailing going on. This particular Judge from Punjab & Haryana High Court who is allegedly being given a clean chit, had threatened that she alone is not involved and if persecuted she would expose all names. Is it not blackmailing?

Ø In my humble opinion, JUDICIARY IS THE CESSPOOL OF CORRUPTION IN THE COUNTRY. IT IS THE FOUNTAINHEAD.

Ø Least educated or qualified people occupy the highest position in judiciary. I am sorry to say that many of Judges do not have basic knowledge of English to read, understand and interpret law.

Ø What we need is a common code of conduct for all public servants, be it bureaucracy, members of legislatures, elected representative, constitutional appointees, and Judges. They must declare their assets every year, criminal record, if any, so on and so forth.

Ø And lastly pardon my saying this, what about Journalists, Newspapers & Electronic Media. You are wise enough to appreciate what I mean. We cannot wait for another sixty years for freedom; it should come to us now, and we would get it.

Ø I have not said anything worse that what you have said for Prashant Bhushan. My views must be published without moderation.


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Friday, November 6, 2009

TV producers had banned the airhead heiress from wearing a bikini while she is in Dubai But within hours she was posing for photos in semi nude

WEDNESDAY, JULY 1, 2009

Paris Hilton Wears A Two Piece Bikini in Dubai

TUESDAY, JUNE 30, 2009

Paris Hilton Wears A Two Piece Bikini in Dubai


Source:
www.GutterUncensored.com

Paris Hilton caused an international incident because she thinks everyone needs to see how "hot" she is in a skimpy bikini. She decided to go for a staged photo shoot in her bikini on a beach in Dubai while she is there filming a new season of her MTV show My New BFF. This is nothing new for Paris posing in her bikini, the only problem is that Dubai is not a big fan of American skanks in tiny bikinis. That and it is against the law to wear suck revealing outfits in the Muslim country. The funny thing about this whole thing is producers warned her ass not to do it and the day before wearing her two piece she "made a big public speech, saying how much she loved the Middle East and respected its culture."
TV producers had banned the airhead heiress from wearing a bikini while she is in Dubai shooting the third series of My New BFF.
But within hours she was posing for photos in a skimpy two piece.
Brilliant. Our source says: "Paris had made a big public speech, saying how much she loved the Middle East and respected its culture. But the following day she was prancing around on the beach in her bikini and posing provocatively.
Bosses warned her Western tourists have been jailed for flouting the rules."

So now Paris Hilton's Dubai hotel room has been bugged. She was reportedly horrified when bodyguards found a recording device hidden in her private suite. A source working with the 28-year-old socialite told Britain's Daily Express newspaper: "It was some sort of transmitter by all accounts. We are not sure what the device picked up or whom it was transmitting to. But it did leave Paris very jittery." Anyway, I guess the cat is out of the bag now. Paris Hilton is working for the CIA to overthrow governments in oil rich states. Please don't torture her... But she is well trained and ready for it. Click on pictures to enlarge.



P.S.

She is also a biological weapon.

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Paris Whitney Hilton (born February 17, 1981 in New York City, New York, U.S.) is an American celebutante, singer, actress, model, andbusinesswoman.GutterUncensored.com

She is best-known through the television series The Simple Life. She has appeared in several minor film roles, most notably in the horror film House of Wax in 2005. In 2004 she published a tongue-in-cheek autobiography. In 2006, she released her debut album Paris. Hilton's career pursuits include singing, modeling, acting, writing, and television. As a result of several legal incidents, Hilton served a widely publicized sentence in an L.A. County jail facility in 2007. GutterUncensored.com

Hilton has worked as a model, actress, musician, and businesswoman. According toForbes Magazine, she earned approximately $2 million in 2003–2004, $6.5 million in 2004–2005, and $7 million in 2005–2006. GutterUncensored.com

Hilton began modeling as a child, initially at charity events. When she was 19, she signed with Donald Trump's modeling agency, T Management. Hilton has also worked with Ford Models in New York, Models 1 Agency in London, Nous Model Management in Los Angeles, and Premier Model Management in London. She has appeared in numerous advertising campaigns, including Iceberg Vodka, GUESS, Tommy Hilfiger, Christian Dior, and Marciano. In 2001, Hilton began to develop a reputation as a socialite, being identified as "New York's leading It Girl" whose fame was beginning to "extend beyond the New York tabloids". She has appeared in several magazines, including the April 2004 issue of Maxim. GutterUncensored.com

parents always teach their kids to be honest in life,but they regularly lie to them as a way of influencing their behavior and emotions,

While parents always teach their kids to be honest in life, they regularly lie to them as a way of influencing their behavior and emotions, says
Mother and kid
Parents use deception to influence kids (Getty Images)
a new study.

but
The research team from University of California San Diego and University of Toronto refer to this practice as "parenting by lying."

During the study, they asked U.S. participants in two related studies about parents lying to their children - either for the purpose of promoting appropriate behavior or to make them happy. Many parents reported they told their young kids that bad things would happen if they didn’t go to bed or eat what they were supposed to.

For instance, one mother said she told her child that if he didn’t finish all of his food he would get pimples all over his face. Other parents reported inventing magical creatures.
One explained, "We told our daughter that if she wrapped up all her pacifiers like gifts, the ‘paci-fairy’ would come and give them to children who needed them...I thought it was healthier to get rid of the pacifiers, and it was a way for her to feel proud and special."

"We are surprised by how often parenting by lying takes place," said Kang Lee, professor at the University of Toronto and director of the Institute of Child Study. "Moreover, our findings showed that even the parents who most strongly promoted the importance of honesty with their children engaged in parenting by lying," Lee added.

Although Gail Heyman, professor of psychology at UC San Diego, thinks that there are occasions when it is appropriate to be less than truthful with a child, like "telling a two-year-old you don’t like their drawing is just cruel," she said - she urges parents to think through the issues and consider alternatives before resorting to the expedient lie.

"Children sometimes behave in ways that are disruptive or are likely to harm their long-term interests," said Heyman. "It is common for parents to try out a range of strategies, including lying, to gain compliance. When parents are juggling the demands of getting through the day, concerns about possible long-term negative consequences to children’s beliefs about honesty are not necessarily at the forefront," the expert added.

The research is published in the current edition of The Journal of Moral Education .

Parents say they treat and love their kids equally. However, a new study has shown that most people fall into the trap of showing favouritism,
Parents with kids
Parents shall treat and love their kids equally (Getty Images)
making the ‘black sheep’ of the house feel unaccepted and unloved.


The research, by Julie Fitness, associate professor of psychology at Macquarie University, shows 69 per cent of her sample of 70 could identify the family "favourite" and 80 per cent could identify the "black sheep".

"Parents say they treat their children equally. But when you ask people they say ''Of course there was a favourite.'' They take it for granted,” theage.com.au quoted her, as saying.

Dr Fitness said the middle child was almost never considered the favourite. The favourites were usually the oldest or the youngest, or the only boy or girl in a family dominated by one sex; or the child who shared a parent''s interests and outlook.

"People say, ''Mum always liked her best because she looked like her or shared her interests. Or ''My father didn''t take to me because I wasn''t sporty like him,'' " Dr Fitness said.

She said it was often easier for parents to like the child who was like them. They might love their children but not necessarily like all of them or relate well to different temperaments. Parents felt guilty and tried to disguise their preferences.

She said adults who considered themselves the black sheep placed themselves on a continuum from feeling not loved or part of the family to being just a little bit different and getting the "raw end of the stick" more often than was fair.

For some black sheep the consequences could be lasting, serious and sad.

"The family is the primary social unit and if you feel you are not accepted or loved by your parents where does that leave you in this tough world?" she said.

Dr Fitness said it could be tough for parents, too. But accepting a child''s difference, and not blaming, was a start to understanding. And having involvement with an extended family was also beneficial. Those respondents who had most involvement with extended family were the least likely to say there had been a favourite or black sheep.

The research will be presented at a conference held by the Children''s Family Research Centre at Macquarie University starting today.


Amrita Singh is 35, single, and would like nothing more than to have children of
Madam Ovary
Madam Ovary
her own.


Unfortunately , there's no man in sight as yet and she's at an age when female fertility is on the decline. But that hasn't discouraged Singh, who put plan B into action three months ago. She got her eggs frozen. "I'm happy I have an investment for myself," the Mumbai girl said. "In case I don't marry and have trouble conceiving, I can have children using in vitro fertilisation."

Women like Singh are gradually warming up to the idea of preserving their eggs in order to have children late. And, quite understandably, it's a sensitive subject given the enormous social pressures of early marriage and children that the average Indian woman faces. No wonder Singh, whose name has been changed, preferred to call TOI-Crest from a public phone booth in order to remain completely anonymous.

Egg or oocyte freezing is not a new practice, it's just that the technology has been updated. Traditionally, eggs were preserved using a method known as slow freezing, where they were frozen in an anti-freeze substance called cryoprotectant. However, while sperms and embryos could successfully be preserved using this method, eggs didn't fare too well. This is because the egg, the largest cell in the human body, is full of water that turns into damaging ice crystals. The rate of births using slow freezing is abysmally low - two births per 100 eggs preserved.

The new method, vitrification, has yielded far better results. It involves freezing eggs in higher concentrations of cryoprotectant and cooling them rapidly. In just a few minutes, the eggs must be plunged from the normal body temperature of 37 degrees Celsius to minus 196 degrees in barrels of liquid nitrogen. "The eggs can be kept in frozen suspension for years, like Sleeping Beauty," infertility specialist Dr Aniruddha Malpani said, "till their owner decides to have a child." In that case, they are thawed and fertilised in vitro. According to Dr Hrishikesh Pai, who practises at Lilavati Hospital, vitrification offers a success rate of 40 per cent.

The technology has been in India for the past couple of years but only a handful of women have made use of it. One of the reasons could be the cost, which is quite prohibitive at around Rs 1.5 lakh. Women take recourse to it if they want children late or if they're suffering from diseases whose treatment might reduce their fertility.

Many women who have opted to freeze their eggs have done so for what doctors term "social reasons" . Most of them are in their late 30s and unmarried. "Quite a few women are career oriented ," Pai explained. "They don't have time to find the right man, but they want to have a child from their own DNA. And technology has made it possible for them to fulfil their wish, even if they want to wait for 10 years. In fact, you can have a child after menopause too."

Infertility specialist Dr Nandita Palshetkar, who practises at Lilavati and Fortis La Femme in Delhi, said she has met women over 40 who want to freeze their eggs. But she suggests they use donor eggs as they're too old to produce eggs of good quality. The oldest patient she has treated is a 38-year-old .

Malpani believes that "it's an empowering technology" and expects it to catch on in the future. Over the year and half that he has been practicing oocyte freezing, he has frozen the eggs of three women. "This is a back-up plan," he said. "If she meets the man of her dreams and has a baby, then great. Otherwise she could use donor sperm."

At one time, women found the idea of using donor sperm distasteful. While the practice is still not widespread, single women are gradually beginning to consider it. "Most single women are not averse to getting their eggs fertilised by donor sperms," Palshetkar said.

Ten years ago, 51-year-old businesswoman Anita Thomas didn't act on her doctor's suggestion that she freeze her eggs, balking at the prospect of having them fertilised by donor sperm. Thomas, who is still unmarried, doesn't think she would have been brave enough to be a single mother, but the 'what if' thought does cross her mind.

Singh isn't entirely comfortable with the idea either, but remains undecided. "I believe in marriage ," she explained. "But I want a child for sure. And it's not impossible to be a single mother . You read about people like Sushmita Sen."

Only a few hospitals and infertility clinics practice this technique so far. But this could soon change. Cryos, the country's first international sperm bank, is planning to start egg freezing soon. Managing director Dilip Patil said sperm banks are under pressure from the Indian Council for Medical Research (ICMR) to acquire the technology, as a bill that seeks to regulate assisted reproductive technology (ART), proposed by the health ministry, requires semen banks to provide oocytes as well.

If the technology becomes more easily available , it would also benefit women suffering from serious illnesses such as cancer. Treatments like radiation and chemotherapy can affect a woman's fertility, ruining her chances of conceiving after she is cured. Such patients also have another shot at pregnancy, but one that's far more daunting than egg freezing - ovarian tissue preservation. This is a complex procedure that involves removing the ovaries, carving its cortex into strips and freezing these in cryoprotectant. When the woman is ready to have a child, the strips are thawed, divested of follicles, which can then be matured and fertilised in vitro. Pai has till date performed this technique only on two women. "It's a very tedious process," he explained. "Women are psyched . They prefer to borrow eggs from outside."

That such technology is now available in India is good news for cancer patients. The country has a large population of young cancer patients , of which a sizeable number are women who suffer from breast cancer. Shubha Maudgal , director of NGO Cancer Patients Aid Association , said that while in the West the average age of cancer patients is 50, in India it is closer to 40 years. She has had to deal with several breast cancer patients in their late 20s who overlooked family planning in their hurry to get cured. "The rush is to get the tumour out," Maudgal said. "They're not thinking about having children. Doctors also tend to focus on the tumour and not the person around the tumour." She hopes that an increased interest in egg freezing and ovarian tissue preservation will make the technology more widespread and affordable . "There is life after breast cancer," she said. "So these are things we have to look into."

Can you imagine these young men at 40 years of age, still dreaming of the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow?

We are a country of 1.2 billion people that don’t want to discuss the very act that put us on the planet. Let’s face it — our first and biggest
sex problem is that the very word itself, “SEX”, makes us uncomfortable!


We are averse to it in advertising, in films, as living room chatter, as a subject for education in school; we certainly don’t want to acknowledge our parents ever had sex, or that our kids will have to, in order to produce the grandchildren we crave. Our resistance to discussing sexual issues and educating ourselves, our children and others on sex related matters, leads to unsatisfied sex lives, unwanted pregnancies, overpopulation, sexually transmitted diseases, and the spread of HIV/Aids. We are the ostrich that buries its head in the misplaced sands of “morality and culture”.

Which brings us to our second problem — a complete lack of knowledge about our culture? Anyone familiar with Hindu tantra or our world famous Kamasutra, will vouch for the fact that we were sexually liberal as a race. But somehow, our nation became so enamoured or influenced by the British Raj that we aspired for all that was theirs... their fair skin, their power, their systems and their “morality”.

We absurdly swapped our sexually liberated way of life, for the “morality” of the Victorian era. And this brings us to our third problem — sensuous, joyous people that represented a tolerant culture turned inhibited, anxious and the joy of sex became a source of shame. Sex became unacceptable as an act of recreation. It was a function that was meant to be administered only as a means of procreation and that too, within the boundaries of marriage.

This led to the death of foreplay, a resistance to exploratory acts of sex and conveniently took the pressure off the man to get his woman to an orgasm. Any attempt at a position other than missionary, was treated as an act of depravity which led to problem number four — intolerance of alternative sexuality!

Biographies of Roman kings, Greek heroes, Egyptian queens, depictions on our Konark and Khajuraho temples are all testimony to homosexuality being a part of world civilisations for centuries. However, the British deemed it a criminal offence in 1860. We sent the Brits packing but retained the desire to uphold their Victorian morality and laws.

Despite the British themselves decriminalising homosexuality in 1967, and legalising gay marriages in 2005, we carried the hangover till the Indian high court ruled it as a non-criminal offence in 2009. Unfortunately, a majority of our society still prefers the hangover. Their fear and intolerance of this community breeds misconceptions, phobias and discrimination and compels 15 per cent of our population to hide and harbour feelings of shame when there should be no need for it.

Our fifth problem and most unfortunate problem is the moral police. They are problem number 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5 rolled into one and perpetuators of the same. Rather than go after child molesters, rapists, paedophiles, dowry deaths, they chase innocent consenting adult lovers, file cases on those who talk pro-premarital sex (ala Khushboo), burn shops that sell love cards... The list goes on...! They are averse to friendship between the sexes, love, sex and even the simple art of romance out of the boundaries of marriage.

I’ve listed the problems. But what are the solutions? I suppose it’s do away with Victorian hangovers, practice tolerance, and when in bed with your partner, remember... there are only two known mammals that enjoy sex. Humans and dolphins. Let’s thank our creator and honour his intentions. Let’s make the most of it!
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Dina Zaman writes so she can find answers. A lot of times, she doesn’t. When she has free time, she reads literary fiction or very trashy magazines. Her pet causes are Tony Leung, children’s rights advocacy and HIV/AIDS issues.

NOV 6 — They are young, hungry, with a displaced sense of humour of the Beavis and Butthead kind. They come in all shapes and sizes, and always looking to "shadow" a public figure, preferably rich and connected, because they’re looking for a shortcut to not … riches, but a commission amounting to maybe RM10,000? RM100,000?

And as one told me recently, he would then spread his "assets" throughout the whole year, by getting sloshed at the Asian Heritage Row, spending time at the mamaks nursing a hangover and trying to talk tough to chicks, and yeah, shadowing another public figure for some small project. And yes, everyone is a potential connection.

Oh yes, these brokers come in all colours. I've met the young Chinese brokers, very eager for the hunt, and very wily. Some are handsome, and some look like upgraded Ah Bengs. I’ve met the Indian ones, with odd accents and flash ties, who have dropped deals here… there… and I end up thinking, sure. And I’m Angelina Jolie.

But it is the Malay brokers who fascinate me and the reason could be simple: I keep attracting these guys. For the life of me, they actually believe I have the contacts, and I don’t. I’m a writer for heaven’s sake. I sleep at 9.30 every night. I’m not important business-wise. But I entertain myself by going to "business meetings" at, the most upmarket, Starbucks, and middle ground, Devis in Hartamas.

“Why don’t you just get a job?” I asked one.

“Ingat keje tu boleh kaya ke?”

We all know you’re not going to get rich easily in Malaysia. You really do need the connections. If you’re a woman, if you have some looks and adjustable morals, you either become a second wife or a kept woman. You can become a corporate high-flier, but if you do not have the patience, or want to brown nose, or even have the smarts to go to the top, it’s not easy to have SOME savings in the kitty. Unfortunately in Malaysia, you need to make deals to gain some respect and money to live on in your old age.

“Are you sure you’re going to get this project?” I frowned.

“Oh I’m VERY close to this (neophyte and small-time) politician and he is the SECOND COUSIN to the director of the board who knows the PA to the CHAIRMAN.”

“Are you sure you’re going to get this project?” I asked again.

“Urm. Kita kena tender dulu…”

“I want to go home now.”

We all know of successful brokers. They’re usually very low key, well at least the ones I know. Their vices? Nice cars. Maybe the odd woman or so. But most of the time, they shun publicity and there’s no theatrics when you talk to them. They fly in and out of the country.

But the small-time brokers — I do not know if they merit pity or disgust. I suppose the former would be more apt, because it’s not easy to crack a deal. Their confidence is shaken when a small deal does not come through, but they have to play the part. They gotta look cool. And in comes an old classmate who has done very well for himself — you think they’re not envious?

The odd thing, despite the gaffes, they actually think they are it. There’s one overweight broker my friends and I know. When he is with his friends, he name drops like anything. He tells everyone he has the most expensive CD player, and he clubs with the "hi-so" (high society).

He has meetings after meetings and no one can find him during work, but because he’s such a smooth talker, he’s still holding a job. And one day we met, because he had access to federal funds which could benefit the shelter I volunteer at.

“You want a 10 per cent cut from the funds if we get the grant from MOSTI?” I squealed.

“I have two wives, Cik Dina. I need to support my family.”

“What you do with your personal life is none of my concern, as well as your budgeting methods. I’m doing all the donkey work, and you want a cut from a grant? This is an NGO OK?”

“Alah Cik Dina…”

I have also met one young Malay broker who I think in the next five years will go very far. He has a Chinese sifu, speaks impeccable English and is well-dressed. When he talks, he articulates his ideas well, and everything is placed on paper. He knows when to talk and when to be silent. One can smell success on him.

However, he is one of the very few. The other brokers I have met ape bad American TV shows when it comes to speech, big dreams and they think waking up at 10am is way too early. And it is sad. After a while you get to know these young men and that despite the showmanship, they are like all of us.

They too want to be admired; they too want to provide for their families. Kalau ada girlfriend, macam mana nak nikah kalau takde harta? And like all men, they do want a decent car. It’s not wrong to want all these. We are human. We have desires.

Can you imagine these young men at 40 years of age, still dreaming of the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow? Sampai bila nak jadi broker? Of course they know people think little of them. But like us, they have to wake up in the mornings and make a living, however suspect it may be.

The writer is still cringing from her Dungun contractor-admirer ordeal.



Do you see red if your teenage kid is texting "8"? If not, then it's time you should know that this humble numerical message actually means that
Teen's secret sex-messages
Teen's secret sex-messages (Getty Images)
your child is suggesting oral sex, according to a new list by NetLingo.com.


Titled ''Top 50 Text Acronyms Parents Should Know'', the list compiled by contains terms that are completely unknown to most people, teenaged or otherwise.

"I swear, I've used the Internet for 13 years, and still insist half of this stuff is either made up or never used," Fox Newsquoted a commenter on online aggregator site Digg as saying.

And a cell-phone expert- Sascha Segan of PC Magazine-agrees: "I honestly have to say I have never seen most of these terms. It looks like a lot of them come from online sex chat rooms, and not just any chat rooms, but sadomasochistic ones."

Some of the very specific terms on the list, even include terms like "NIFOC" that means "Nude In Front Of The Computer", and "ILF/MD" that apparently means "I Love Female/Male Dominance".

NetLingo.com is a Web site devoted to collating and explaining online jargon, and had compiled the list only a couple of years back, and each term listed there clicks through to a page indicating its origin.

"This is stuff that's being used all across the Internet, in instant messaging, in chat rooms, in text messaging. There are spikes in the amount of usage for each acronym, and regional variations," said Erin Jansen, founder ofNetLingo.com.

While Jansen's not claiming that every teenager is using each acronym, but she insists that all of them are things that parents should be aware of.

"It's a good overview of what parents ought to be aware of, even if their kids aren't going to these weird chat rooms, because kids pick them up anyway. It's like when I was young and my friends and I looked up dirty words in the dictionary," Jansen says.

Segan, however, isn't convinced that a middle-school-aged teen would soon be fluent in bondage terminology.
However, some of the terms are accurate, chiefly the ones having to do with the presence of parents in the room, or "parent or mom over shoulder".

"CD9, POS, MOS -- those are real. But a lot of the other stuff is just laughably out of date," he said.

NetLingo.com does have a longer list of commonly used text terms, which is more useful.

"That's the one parents should be looking at. If parents don't know those, it doesn't mean they're old -- it just means they're not tuned into Internet culture," said Segan.

Sunday, October 18, 2009

“Muslims Talking Sex” Series: The Joy of Muslim Sex by Ruwayda Z.




GOATMILK continues its original and exclusive month long series entitled “Muslims Talking Sex” featuring diverse Muslim writers from around the world discussing a gamut of topics in their own unique, honest and eclectic voices.

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The Joy of Muslim Sex

Why? Because we’re tired of reading about tilths and whatnot. The language Muslims use to talk about sex needs updating – even if we already know what the score is in private. This is a working document and relevant suggestions grounded in orthodoxy will be included.

GETTING KINKY

- Sexual love is explicitly referred to as part of God’s grace and as a sign of God in itself (Qur’an 30:21). It’s a form of worship to fuck.

- Sex is not merely for procreation, but specifically also for pleasure (unlike many non-Muslim schools of thought, which note specific timings and restrictions upon sex.

- There are only two things off-limits between consenting adults: anal sex (unless one subscribes to select Shi’a schools of thought[1]) and sex whilst menstruating (for safety reasons). And this is rooted in completely logical, hygienic foundations. Everything else goes; this would mean that BDSM, role-play, sex outdoors and all other varieties of kinky sex, for instance, are not off-limits[2].

- Foreplay is obligatory. This is widely known and de rigueur. There are reams of works devoted to the fact that men cannot approach women with solely their own needs in mind i.e. (the Kama Sutra has nothing on Ghazzali).[3] The Qu’ran commands men to put the sexual needs of the woman first[4] .

- The best of you (men) is the best of you who treats his wives – canonical thought. I interpret this as those men who are best able to go down on and give pleasure to their wives. We know this is doable because of hadith suggesting the use of musk after cycles, indicating that oral sex was always on the menu.[5]

- Sex in any position is acceptable – missionaries are not where the buck stops. The best positions for achieving the maximum amount of pleasure are preferred.

- Any time is acceptable. I don’t think this means whilst the Adhan is going off however.

- If a man fails to live up to his conjugal rights, this is grounds enough for divorce. Yes, you read that right – if he’s awful in the sack, let’s get it on with the Talaq.

CULTURAL STIGMAS, ACTUAL REWARDS

- There is no Original Sin in Islam. Eve (Hawa) never sexually tempted Adam and is therefore not responsible for the downfall of Man. There is thus no sense of repression or of guilt attached to sexual acts, which are instead viewed as beautiful and pleasurable.

- Shyness: asking frank questions about religion is essential. This is explicitly the case with sex education which is an essential part of growth. Bees and Birds and staid euphemisms which adults use to refer to around children are somewhat irrelevant yet still culturally endemic. But in reality, taboos are strongly discouraged leading to sin and repression in and of themselves because of the rise of STDs, unwanted pregnancies etc[6].

- Moreover, you actually get blessings for legal sex ergo- again, no shameful connotations attached (no, we don’t need to have sex through a sheet, nor are we inspected or have to endure Mikvah’s upon completion of cycles). Why? To counterbalance the fact that illicit sex (i.e. adulterous) accrue negative vibes[7]

- Anglo-Saxon concepts of males/females/ wives/husbands do not have echoes in the bedroom – all such terms having traditionally derogatory etymologies which do not correspond with gender neutral terms in Islam

- There’s no stigma to divorce. By that I mean the traditional Western connotations of divorcees as having been tainted, barren or problematic do not apply to Muslims. We are still whole, we have just been through a rough time essentially.

- Hermits (celibates etc) are discouraged from the laity upwards on the grounds that it unnaturally represses human instincts

MAKING IT LEGAL: THE ‘AWESOME COVENANT’ [8]

- A Union is defined as Consenting adults in a contractual agreement between two partners – different from culturally prevalent ideas of marriage in that it can be performed by anyone, with very few addendums including a dowry and witnesses. This is not an endorsement of Mut’ah or Orfi (short-termism), this is to say lets go public about dating and treat long term relationships like marriage – the same way its done in the west with common law marriages. When we start dating seriously, we don’t intend to end it early, do we?

- We do not have archaic notions of contraception, and are thus not theoretically constrained by outdated birth control or STD prevention ideas. This means we regard Rhythm methods as really bizarre etc

- Cougars are perfectly acceptable if not de rigueur in traditional thought

- There should be at least three months grace period between having sex with another (contractually obligated) partner – to avoid heartache, allow time for possible reconciliation or indeed, possible pregnancies. Interestingly it takes three months for an AIDS test nowadays… go figure

- A man and woman (except family members) are not to be alone in the same room unless publicly having consented to be together.

- Chasteness (not to be confused with virginity, which is completely irrelevant considering many people get abused in the Muslim world) is important -serial monogamy is fine where promiscuity is frowned upon.

Notes

I must admit, the idea of Muslim marriage as stipulated in Orthodox terms is extraordinarily different (i.e. more flexible/profound) to the desi/ayrab kitsched out normative cultural versions of its practice. A cursory glimpse at the dire marital questionnaires people are encouraged to fill out speak to extraordinarily limited understandings of what goes into marriage as well as a limited grasp of the philosophy behind these questions and why they need to be asked.

What is a union after all? There are orthodox schools of thought which note that common law marriages are actually marriages (i.e. where the couple live together, have children but have had no ceremony in the traditional understanding of the sense). At the orthodox heart of the Muslim Union lies several elements which center on the social contract between the couple and society. How it’s made public is through the mechanism of a number of witnesses; an imam need not be there, yet any person who officiates should. A formal understanding of the dowry is all that’s required. And in our family, dowries are usually promises, gifts of qur’an or significant tokens.

Instead, Muslims have adopted Anglo-Saxon words such as husband or wife – terms with sexist etymologies to eschew the more dire/politically correct ‘partner’ terms – as the language simply is inadequate. In fact, the lexicon, the philosophy and the meanings behind all that we take as symbolic for marriage have begun to dissipate – what we’re left with are gaudy ceremonies resembling cattle markets awash with glitter, tinsel, tacky food traditions, bizarrely subordinate women having sweat-meats stuffed in mouths, parents agog at giving children away, mahr agreements reduced to gold-digging glee. It’s a mockery of the concept which ought to have been rooted in spiritual underpinnings from the off. And nowhere to be found is the most important criteria for choosing an equal – a sense of god consciousness or Taqwa. Instead, from the get-go the relationship is relegated to appeasing status, in-laws, material wealth in the form of ballrooms and numbers of guests. I fish for content in such notions and struggle to find love or simplicity. It’s the social contract distorted out of relevance and poignancy.

No wonder so many marriages now have lost what it is which makes them tick. I don’t get a sense of the divine in attending them these days at all. Then there’s the idea that it is somehow the complete opposite of dating in itself – but do we even know what to date means? Orthodox Muslim Unions are more logical and adaptable to reality than we’d think. Added to this the theoretical ease with which sex fully takes on the meanings it should, unions can once again become incredible.


[1] The Grand Ayatollah has decreed that anal intercourse is “not permissible without the wife’s consent” – indicating that if she consents, it’s all good.

[2] Prophet Mohammed (PBUH) had talked about ‘al-bikr wa liaabiha’ [the virgin and her saliva], which means they understood the importance of French kissing long before the French did.

[3] Surah Al Baqarah = a verse talking about the woman’s rising pleasure. It’s an order to the man to give the woman the right to have pleasure — it orders the man to give the woman foreplay and also to get the wife to have sex repeatedly and to not wait for the woman to ask because sometimes she’s too shy to ask

[4] “Verse 223 of Al-Baqara also mentions foreplay,” Qutb says, quoting: “‘Your wives are a tilth for you, so go into your tilth when you like, and do good beforehand for yourselves, and be careful [of your duty] to Allah, and know that you will meet Him, and give good news to the believers.’ “It says ‘wa qaddimo li anfosikom’ [and do good beforehand for yourselves]. The letter waw [and] means that the act and what happens before it have to go together. But then wait, it also says for yourselves, and science has proven that foreplay has a positive impact on the man, too. The excitation causes the pineal gland to secrete nitric oxide (NO3), a very precious and essential chemical that the brain secretes frugally but that helps channel the blood flow to the genitals, causing erection and arousal in both males and females,” she says.

[5] ‘A’isha reported: A woman asked the Apostle of Allah (may peace be upon him) how he should wash herself after the menstrual period. He (the Holy Prophet) said: Take a cotton with musk and purity yourself, and the rest of the hadith was narrated like that of Sufyan.

[6] A’ishah, the wife of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, made this clear: “Blessed are the women of the Ansar (the citizens of Madinah). Shyness did not stand in their way seeking knowledge about their religion.”

[7] Hadith: The Prophet once remarked that a man is to be rewarded for sex with his wife, and when some of his surprised listeners wondered how could a person be rewarded for satisfying his own desire, the Noble Prophet said, ‘ Do you not see that if he were to satisfy it in a prohibited manner he would be committing a sin? So if he satisfies it in a lawful manner he will be recompensed’

[8] ‘…an awesome covenant’ An-Nisaa:21



you cannot believe the ridiculous notions muslims have abt marital intimacy (through a sheet, no nudity etc.)could u comment on the concept of a wive not refusing her husband sex.thanks again, enjoyed this frankness!


Great topic & article. The language was a bit… colloquial, but I get it, it goes with the subject & breaking of barriers. I like it.


In addition to the above commenter’s suggestion, you could also add commentary on masturbation — its permissibility before marriage, to avoid zina, and within marriage. (although some slight inaccuracies and assumptions regarding oral sex), but ruwayda should also talk about the permissibility of sex with slave girls, permissibility of bigamy (without even telling the first wife), wife required to give her husband sex, and temporary marriage for sex practices (which many wahhabi arab sunnis also practice discretely through various fatwas and for the most part have grounding in orthodox law) which will make the same liberal chic crowd hooting about the openness of orthodox islamic sex cringe because it infringes on their sense of leftist humanism


so before poo-pooing away all of the victorian-esque or persian adaptations muslims have brought into the original arab-recorded orthodox islam (which muslims assume is the “correct” way to practice islam, but which ironically is also filled with many biases and cultural quirks that developed over time due to linguistic evolution), consider that cultural variabilities are not all necessarily sexist or biased or bad, there are things offset through today’s preferred heuristic interpretations of islam due to ethnocentrism or cultural malaise that many western muslims would consider to be a positive influence in jurisprudence, whether orthodox or not


p.s.

i am a heterodox muslim and an ardent follower of shaikh abdul qadr gilani, may Allah SWT be pleased with him, hence being a member of the Qadri Brotherhood, something which most western muslims seem to know nothing about when they debate endlessly about orthodox versus unorthodox


80% of the world’s muslims are like me – only 20% of the world debates orthodox vs. unorthodox issues anyways – we the sufis have occupied ourselves with more relevant things such as twirling around in circles, wandering into random caves and attempting to connect with God, maintaining shrines, and reciting naaths on 12th rabbiul awal where we decorate our homes with green lights in honor of the birth and raising of prophet Mohammad PBUH from the shackles of our confined and limited dimension


editors note



also, author takes too many liberties assuming what is being implied by certain discourse


there is a point to be made for metaphorical references, but taking huge liberties like “french kissing before the french” is a bit much and detracts from the potential value of the article


I’m concerned that you voice lack of male technique as a grounds for divorce. That is very unprofessional. If technique or manner is lacking, there are alternative ways to address this. And a relationship should not be based on sex alone.


Otherwise, a good article that is certainly needed to dispel strange notions that muslims have regarding sex.



what do you mean by dating? I don’t really think it’s something to encourage though I do agree that we need to be honest about it. It’s a fact of life.


and in regards to: ‘A man and woman (except family members) are not to be alone in the same room unless publicly having consented to be together.’


what counts as consent?


just wondering.